{"id":792,"date":"2011-05-29T05:50:18","date_gmt":"2011-05-29T05:50:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/?p=792"},"modified":"2011-05-29T05:53:10","modified_gmt":"2011-05-29T05:53:10","slug":"how-to-kiss-like-you-mean-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/how-to-kiss-like-you-mean-it\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Kiss Like You Mean It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Imran-Sonam-Kissing-Scene-I-Hate-Luv-Storys.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-795\" title=\"Imran-Sonam-Kissing-Scene-I-Hate-Luv-Storys\" src=\"http:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Imran-Sonam-Kissing-Scene-I-Hate-Luv-Storys-300x168.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" \/><\/a>Ever since Juliet teased Romeo about kissing &#8220;by the book,&#8221; women and men have been striving to do it better. But is smooching really that big a deal? Yes! New scientific research proves it can make or break a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Here, our three-step guide to unforgettable kissing:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Listen to Your Lips<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sixty-six percent of women have broken off a relationship after a bad first kiss, according to study results from evolutionary psychologist Gordon G. Gallup Jr., Ph.D., at the University at Albany. And that&#8217;s not shallow: &#8220;Kissing is nature&#8217;s ultimate litmus test,&#8221; says Sheril Kirshenbaum, author of\u00a0<em>The Science of Kissing<\/em>. &#8220;Sometimes you can kiss someone you think is ideal, and yet suddenly you feel different. Women are most attracted to the scents of men with a different set of genes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Keep Practicing<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Fun stat: 20 percent of college students have romantically kissed more than 20 people. Once you&#8217;re settled, keep at it. A study from Lafayette College in Easton, Pennsylvania, found that kissing releases chemicals that reduce the stress hormone cortisol. &#8220;Kissing is something that often falls by the wayside when we&#8217;re with someone for a long time,&#8221; says Kirshenbaum. &#8220;So when you have somebody, keep kissing them, because it&#8217;s the ultimate way to reconnect.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Make Every Time Like the First Time<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In Christina Haag&#8217;s recent memoir,\u00a0<em>Come to the Edge<\/em>, she dishes about her romantic relationship with John F. Kennedy Jr. After practicing fake kissing for a play, the onstage lovers finally\u00a0<em>really<\/em> lock lips. Writes Haag: &#8220;We sat for a while under the stars and felt no need to speak. But then he did. &#8216;Can I do this for real?&#8217; He didn&#8217;t wait for an answer; he leaned in. Only our lips touched. It was gentle, hands-free, exquisite. I opened my eyes for a second \u2026 and saw, by the lines at his eyes, that he was smiling.&#8221;<a href=\"http:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/6C5ED21C4B259E572FFDE9EE3C645.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-793\" title=\"6C5ED21C4B259E572FFDE9EE3C645\" src=\"http:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/6C5ED21C4B259E572FFDE9EE3C645.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"157\" height=\"157\" srcset=\"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/6C5ED21C4B259E572FFDE9EE3C645.jpg 157w, https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/6C5ED21C4B259E572FFDE9EE3C645-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/6C5ED21C4B259E572FFDE9EE3C645-60x60.jpg 60w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 157px) 100vw, 157px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever since Juliet teased Romeo about kissing &#8220;by the book,&#8221; women and men have been striving to do it better. But is smooching really that big a deal? Yes! New scientific research proves it can make or break a relationship. Here, our three-step guide to unforgettable kissing: Listen to Your Lips Sixty-six percent of women [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":795,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/792"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=792"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/792\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":796,"href":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/792\/revisions\/796"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/795"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=792"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=792"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/debographic.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=792"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}